As our world has become masculine, it is common for women to feel disconnected from their feminine energy, especially when they have the dominant personality or work in a male-dominated career field. Over time they develop a manly persona. It affects their relationship with their significant other and also their own health. When a woman is not connected to her feminine side, she feels unfulfilled. So, if you are thinking about how to be more feminine, keep reading- you will get your answer.
Ways to be more feminine-
Hair
If you want to be more feminine, your hair will help you in your mission. Our hairstyles define our personalities. We can look more elegant, sophisticated, nerdy, old, young, boyish by just changing our hairstyles. Go for a haircut that is low maintenance and according to your face shape. Be innovative with how you style your hair every day. You can try hair accessories or hair jewellery depending on the look you are trying to achieve. Give love to your hair, take care of them properly by maintaining a consistent hair care routine.
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Dress and accessories
What you wear is very crucial. We are so blessed to be born as women as we have so many clothing opinions available. Invest your money in timeless, ready to wear dresses as they instantly elevate our look. Personally, I feel more feminine when I wear maxi dresses. Do not neglect the lingerie you wear, as sensuality is a part of femininity.
Accessories are fascinating as they showcase confidence. Accessories say more about personal style than clothes. It is like your clothes are the canvas and the accessories you wear, your art. Accessories have the power to make anything and everything look new again.
When you invest in accessories, start with the basics like a hat, handbag, belt, scarf, shoes, jewellery.
Soul sisters
There is nothing better than having positive people around you to lift you up. Having your own group of sacred women together with you can make your life even better. Having a group that inspires us, helps us heal our old wounds and connect with feminine energy is a blessing. Sacred sisterhood makes us feel so protected and nurtured. You will see your pain getting restored by listening to their stories and their wisdom in your sacred circle. You will definitely see a shift happening inside you by being around mindful people.
Embracing periods
Most women get so caught up with period cramps, messiness and blood that they forget to tap into their menstruation magic. It is the time for us to leave everything happening outside of us and completely turn our attention to our inner world. During this time, our intuition especially gets heightened. It is the time for our body to rest and replenish itself and clean any emotional or toxic energy from our system. Notice what is coming up during your period- it can be something your mother said a long time ago or betrayal from a past relationship. Consciously let that pain flow with your blood. Take this time as a chance universe has provided you with to replenish yourself. Let all the archived memory from your past month flow with the blood.
Enjoying the journey
If we focus only on our end goal (money, health, career, spirituality) and work hard to reach it, we are tapped into our masculine energy. To be more feminine is to enjoy the journey more than the end. Actions should be performed without getting too much involved with the results. You have to recognise your powers as the owner of the womb. The magic comes when you surrender your desire and results to the higher power with a positive mindset.
Creativity
Creativity is an indispensable part of femininity. Most women with energy blocks and pain from past abuse or wounds face difficulties expressing their creativity. A woman who is tuned to her divine feminine energy is very creative. And, if you think you are not, let me correct you.
As a woman, the creative energy of the universe flows to and through you. Start by doing your regular work more innovatively like, trying different makeup looks or cooking new dishes.
Scent
There is a reason as to why the scent was one of the most valuable seduction weapons of Cleopatra.
The fragrance is highly individual.
It is an extension of a woman’s personality. Our scent is inescapable and often unforgettable. The faintest trace of perfume can carry us to long-forgotten memories. It is invisible, and it speaks a different language. The fragrance is fascinating because it creates an emotion.
It is mysterious because we can not see it and yet inescapable. You can choose your signature scent by purchasing a few samples and wearing one perfume for a few days. Then, settle for what enhances your personality. I like to spray my perfume lightly in the hair.
Declutter
It is an old belief that our surroundings show the state of our mind. It might sound odd but, when you organise your space, have colour coordinated things, clean your surroundings, it makes you feel more elegant and feminine. Use light coloured and minimalistic themes; light scented candles to make your home smell beautiful. Make sure your space is not cluttered and dirty.
Joy
Stop, breathe in and enjoy the moment. We are so busy hustling these days that we do not realise that we are not here forever. Life passes very quickly. No one knows when their last day is. Feminine energy lives and enjoys every moment and the beautiful creation around it. Find joy in every moment; slow down to notice the beauty of the flower; take some time to laugh with children and live every day to its fullest.
Self-care
As women, we are always so busy taking care of others and giving love to them that we hardly ever bother treating ourselves the same way. Not giving love and care to ourselves can really deplete our energy. To be more feminine, make self care your priority. Schedule a spa day, massage day; do daily exercises, feed your body with the proper nutrition it needs, keep yourself hydrated and, only let seeds of beautiful and positive thoughts take root in your mind. Loving and nurturing ourselves will provide a signal to our body and mind that we deserve love and are valuable. It will replenish our energy rather than depleting it.
It might be onerous to make changes in your life initially as you set out on the journey to be more feminine. Start by taking small steps and be consistent with whatever you are doing.