You get attention from other people. Initially, they are all into you- they want to talk to you and text you all day long, but after some time, you see them detaching from you and losing their interest. Now they do not text you as often. All you want to do is keep their interest. It is possible to do that if you know how to create a mysterious aura. Mystery creates curiosity which always keeps people interested. These easy 11 tips are all you need to be a mysterious woman.
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Ways to become a mysterious woman-
Do not fake it
- I have seen women who deliberately try hard to appear mysterious and seductive.
- The problem is that their intentions are visible. And well, they do garner attention, but mainly from the people who are not suitable for them.
- The more you try to add mystery to yourself, the less mysterious you appear.
Social media
- We spend a considerable amount of time on social media as a part of the digital world.
- What I see as a problem with most women these days is that they literally post EVERY detail of their life.
- You do not need to post about what you are eating every day, your next move towards your goals and details about your relationship or breakup.
- First of all, nobody is that interested in your life. Second, you will fail to invoke curiosity in the minds of others that way.
- To be more mysterious, share a few moments of your life by keeping most of the things to yourself.
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Boundaries
- When we do not have clear boundaries, we invite problems.
- Since childhood, we have been taught to appreciate everyone and be polite, sweet and obedient.
- The problem is that when we do not know when to say yes and when to say no, we give access to others who might not have the best intentions for us.
- Pleasing people by not having clear boundaries destroys our mysterious aura.
- Politely denying is never rude. It is the best way to respect other people and your own boundaries.
Focus on yourself
- Rather than chasing other people and focusing your energy on them, shift it towards yourself.
- Think of ways to expand yourself physically, mentally, financially and spiritually.
- Take some interest in your hobby, and try out new things.
- Ensure that your life is not revolving around one person.
- When you shift your energy towards yourself and live the best life possible, you become joyful. Your happiness makes others more interested, and they try to know more about you.
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All the talking
- Have you seen people who start telling you about their past relationships and friendships, who they like and do not like, and all their struggles and past hurts on the first meeting?
- How do you feel when they do that?
- I am sure you must have felt overwhelmed by too much information and tried changing your path the next time you saw them.
- Nobody cares about what you have been through in your past. Also, you do not owe an explanation to anyone.
- Keep your past and secrets to yourself because you do not know how they could be used against you.
- You kill the possibility of becoming a mysterious woman by giving out all the information about yourself.
- Do not tell people everything.
- Leave something for their imagination.
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Always available
- What makes a diamond so expensive?
- Apart from its beauty, the main reason why a diamond is so expensive is that it is rare.
- It is not easily procurable and has high value.
- Our mental setup makes us take easily obtainable yet precious things for granted.
- The same principle can be applied to people.
- If you are always there for everyone, even if you have to sacrifice your own things, your value will decrease for them.
- Prioritize yourself.
- Be thoughtful about how much time you are spending on others.
- By doing this, others will respect the time they spend with you and will be interested in knowing more about your life.
Appearance
- You can appear mysterious by the way you dress.
- Do not copy someone else’s style.
- You can take inspiration from other people’s styles but add your own flavour to them.
- Try on a different makeup or a new lipstick.
- Wear clothes according to your body type in colours that suit you.
- Experiment with different jewellery pieces or fun accessories.
- Most importantly, do not forget to wear confidence.
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Find your own scent
- It is very underrated but very crucial if you want to be a mysterious woman.
- Our scent draws people towards us.
- Psychologically, our scent lingers in others’ minds even after we leave.
- So try on different perfumes and come up with a scent that is unique to you.
Listen more
- Some people tend to talk only about themselves and appreciate themselves during conversations.
- Always remember, self-praise is no praise.
- So try listening more to others.
- Listening more will help you learn about different things and understand others better.
- Also, it will make people think that you like being in their company and care about their opinions.
- Do not say anything that comes to your mind.
- Think before speaking so that you have high-quality communication with everyone.
Be unpredictable
- When people are able to predict your response or the way you act in a particular situation, things tend to get boring.
- Unpredictability gives rise to curiosity.
- Rather than reacting in the same old patterns, try responding toward other people in a different way.
- Show contrast in your personality like- you can keep one side of yours as a quiet and religious person while the other side of you can be that of a party person.
- Be creative and try mundane things in a very unusual way.
- Give people an idea that there is more to you than what they see at the surface, and it would take them a lifetime to get to know you.
- This type of behaviour will keep people engaged, and they will constantly try to know you better.
Social intelligence
- Become a more socially intelligent person.
- Choose your clothes according to the event you are going to.
- You can not wear a club’s outfit to someone’s baby shower.
- Do not show too many emotions and gestures.
- The best thing is to show different emotions than what people expect from you, but not in a rude or creepy way.
- Keep things subtle and minimum. This will make people more curious about you.
These are simple yet efficient tips to become a mysterious woman that do work.