You had a marvellous time on your first date with the guy who meets all your standards but guess what- he is not inviting you for another date… Solution? How can you switch on your inner magnet to make a person chase you? Well, the tips given below about the ways to be more feminine on a date might be helpful-
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13 tips to be more feminine on a date
Your smell:
Our scent can be an instant turn-on or turn-off. Ensure that you keep bad breath at bay. Try different perfumes and invest in a fragrance that matches your personality. Apply the scent on your clothes, inner wrist, throat, behind the ear lobes, cleavage, behind the knees and elbows.
Do not tell them everything:
Do not tell a guy everything about yourself, especially on your first date. Let him figure it out on his own. Telling him about the kind of men, your interpretation of a perfect relationship, the gifts you would like to receive, etc., make you appear less mysterious. Don’t provide everything on a platter- let him explore all about you!
Body language:
It is one of the most crucial things you can do to look more feminine on a date. Pay attention to your posture. It should be elongated rather than slouchy. Sit properly and keep your spine erect. Don’t slump. Expose your neck as it is very feminine. Move your body slowly and take your time while walking. Your movements should be flowy.
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Do not show your desperation:
No matter how much you are into the guy, do not showcase that through your behaviour. Desperation makes a man feel that you are easy to get. As a result, he will not give you the respect you deserve.
Look more feminine
How can you look more feminine? Different people can have different opinions here. But if you ask me, wearing a dress that fits my silhouette perfectly, putting on my favourite piece of lingerie, wearing dainty jewellery, heels and donning a no-makeup look that beautifully accentuates my facial features constitute the answer. Avoid wearing clothes that are too revealing. Do not forget your nails. Most important, refrain from overdoing.
Stay connected to your body:
Sometimes we are in a rush to reach the venue or are way too excited to meet our date. Because of this, our energy flows into our brain, where we start imagining stuff and are not fully present. It is crucial to bring our energy back to our body from the brain. The easiest ways to do so include listening to soft music on your way to the venue. Before you meet him, rub your palms together until warm. Keep your palms on your womb and take ten slow and deep breaths until you connect to your feelings. Being feminine on a date is not only about how you look but also about how you feel.
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You do not have to impress:
Ladies, it is not your job to impress a guy; it is his. So do not worry about cracking jokes and breaking the ice.
You do not have to fill the silent space between the conversations and talk all the time only to show that you are a fun woman. Let him do the work to keep you interested and engaged in a conversation. If you have to make an effort to impress him, then he is not the one for you.
Observe him
Observe the person you are dating carefully. His language, what he is talking about, his seriousness regarding his future, his body language and how he treats everyone. No matter how long you have been single, there is no room for F boys. So observe him carefully and if he does not match your standards, let it be your last date. Some women ignore the red flags right from the first date because they see the person as they want to see and not as what he shows. Do not let that woman be you.
Do not show an ‘I do not care’ attitude:
Stop being on the phone while you are on a date. It is rude and gives the other person the impression that you do not care. Some ladies deliberately show that they do not care about anyone. Being a queen does not give you the right to disrespect anyone. Be polite and a good listener even if you are not interested in your date. Good manners always come first.
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Do not chase him:
After the date, do not make multiple calls or send texts. It makes you look desperate and is a huge turn-off for men. When you have the urge to text him, use that energy to love yourself. Utilise that time by pampering yourself. It is his job to chase you, and if he does not, keep moving ahead.
Boundaries
As a woman, you should have clear boundaries so that people do not take advantage of you. There is a difference between being affable and disrespecting yourself.
If you find the man crossing the limits, you have the right to decline the offer.
Other people will respect your boundary only when you respect yours!
How you eat
When you are on a date, it is not the time to stuff your mouth with too much food. Prefer eating something light that will not make you feel bloated and gassy. Do not speak when you have food in your mouth because that can lead to spitting, which turns people off. It is better to avoid consuming too much alcohol. Eat your meal slowly and mindfully while keeping dining table etiquettes in mind. Ensure that you do not have anything on your teeth.
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Do not plan ahead
When we are on a date with a man who fits our standards, we tend to take things fast and plan ahead. Refrain from doing this. Take a deep breath and tell your mind that for now, you are here to enjoy this moment. Doing this will keep you connected to your feelings rather than your mind.