Are you interested in becoming a woman who presents herself with grace and dignity, lives every day to its fullest and speaks elegantly? Do you want to become a woman who cultivates her knowledge and has the air of mystery around her? Do you want to see yourself as a woman who looks sophisticated, elegant and feminine every time?
So if you want to look elegant and classy everyday then keep on reading-
Ways to become an elegant and feminine woman-
YOUR CLOTHES
- I want to ask a question from you.
- What do you wear when you are at home all day long or when you come home from work?
- If your answer is old sweat pants and a loose shirt, it is high time you make some changes to transform yourself into an elegant and graceful lady.
- Many people look presentable when out in public. Then, when they get home, they change into sweatpants or some worn-out old outfit that they will never wear outside.
- Do not buy clothes that will make you feel embarrassed if someone sees you in them. To look elegant all the time, wear the same clothes inside the house as you would wear outside. Dress for the day, then this is it.
- If you have clothes in your closet that are old, tattered, stained, oversized, over-worn. Please do yourself a favour and get rid of them.
- It is necessary to look presentable all the time, even when nobody is watching us because we are not cultivating elegance to show off in front of other people. We are doing it to change ourselves.
- Develop your own style that is unique to you. Do not get influenced by trends, celebrities, popular culture, your friends, or your community. We all have different body shapes, so dress accordingly.
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GROOMING
It is impossible to look elegant without being well-groomed. You do not even have to spend a fortune or a lot of time on your grooming. Just having a basic routine is enough to make you look polished all the time.
Hair
- No matter what your hair is like, it should always look neat and clean, and it should be styled so that others can see your face.
- If you colour your hair, make sure that you are scheduling some time to retouch your roots.
- Your haircut should be according to your lifestyle. If you can’t take care of long hair, go for short hair. This way, it gets easier to maintain your hair.
- Schedule your time to take care of your hair.
- Have some time-saving hairstyles for bad hair day.
- Tame the flyaways by spraying hair spray on a toothbrush and brushing them down.
Nails
- There is something about beautiful nails that makes us look elegant and feminine.
- It is not necessary to paint your nails but make sure your nails are clean. When your nail polish gets chipped, remove it. It is always better to have no nail paint than wearing the one that is chipped.
- Trim your nails if their size gets uneven.
- Moisturise and wear sunscreen even on your hands and feet.
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Eyebrows
- Your eyebrows are something that could change your entire face. They frame your eyes beautifully.
- It is always better to get your eyebrows done professionally.
- If you are grooming your eyebrows at home, make sure you do not overpluck them and always follow your natural shape.
BODY HAIR
- There are various options available for removing body hair (waxing, shaving, laser hair removal).
- Depending on the time and money involved, choose the method that is most comfortable for you.
- Personally, I like to use an epilator to remove hair on my entire body and tweezers for my eyebrows. This works best for me.
TEETH
- Do not neglect oral hygiene.
- Brush at least twice daily.
- Do not forget to floss your teeth and use mouthwash.
- Always have mints in your handbag.
- Use teeth whitening strips whenever needed.
MAKEUP
- You will notice that women who are elegant and feminine never have too much makeup on.
- They use makeup to enhance their natural features and not to hide something on their face.
- Elegant and classy women prefer effortless makeup that looks like no-makeup makeup.
- Do not hide under layers of makeup. It is your imperfections that make you unique.
SKINCARE ROUTINE
- Elegant and feminine women always take care of their skin.
- Our skin is the largest organ of our body, do not neglect it at all.
- Have a skincare routine depending upon the time and money you have.
- Consume less junk food and more green vegetables and fruits.
- Stay away from smoking and drinking.
- Take proper sleep.
- Meditate to keep stress at bay.
- Go for a facial if you can afford it. Otherwise, do an at-home facial.
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SMELL GOOD
- Have a signature scent by which people recognise you.
- When you smell good, not only does it attract people, it even uplifts your mood!
- You can even use essential oils if not perfume.
- It is best to apply perfume in certain places of your body- like the base of your throat, inner wrist, behind ear lobes, behind knees, inner elbows and in the cleavage.
- Make sure that you are not bathed in the perfume as it makes people around you nauseous. It is a good idea to keep your scent light.
POSTURE
- Have you seen people lose all their charms despite being impeccably dressed and well-groomed due to bad posture?
- That’s how crucial posture is.
- Start becoming aware of your posture. If you are sitting for a long time, take a break for some time to stretch.
- Make an effort to sit up straight.
- Bring this awareness to everything you do. Notice your weakness. When you are uncomfortable, do you hunch your back? When do you pinch your shoulders together?
- Whenever you notice yourself sliding into poor posture, take a breath and relax. Then, come back to correct posture.
- Unhunch your shoulders, lift up your chin and tuck it in to straighten your head, pull core muscles of your abdomen in, tuck your pelvis in slightly, straighten your back and relax your arms and knees.
- Walk as if you are in the flow. Do not glide on the floor or make loud noises while walking. If you do not know how to walk in heels, it is better to wear flats or start with low heeled shoes.
OUR BEHAVIOUR
- When you come across the people you know, do not try to ignore them. Greet them with a smile and be open to having a conversation.
- When you are talking to people, make eye contact. This will communicate to them that you are trustworthy.
- Elegant and classy women never use their phones in the middle of the conversation as this would make people around them feel ignored. They pay attention to the person they are having a conversation with.
- When you are outside, just be there. Enjoy the trees and fresh air.
- Make this a habit.
- When you come across rude and frustrated people, do not stoop to poor behaviour just because they behave rudely.
- Start becoming aware of your posture, your eye contact, the way you move and behave.
SPEECH
- There is something about well-spoken people that make them look chic, intelligent and sophisticated.
- You will never find elegant and feminine women using abusive language. If you have a habit of cursing, it is time to work towards improvement.
- Be conscious of the words you speak. Use polite language.
- Know when to say yes and no to people.
- Do not forget basic etiquettes. Use words like- sorry, thank you, excuse me whenever and wherever needed.
- When you clean up your language and have clarity, intelligence and politeness in your speech, you will automatically sound elegant.
SOCIAL MEDIA
- Elegant and feminine women always have this air of mystery around them.
- You will not see them sharing every aspect and all the problems of their life with everyone.
- We all have seen people who are most of the time on Facebook and Instagram updating their status for every mundane thing and all the problems they are going through.
- Elegant and classy women do not share the intimate details of everyday life with hundreds of people on social media they hardly know. You will never find them writing nasty comments on social media or getting involved in a Twitter feud.
HAVE KNOWLEDGE
- Do not be too busy looking physically elegant and feminine that you throw your intelligence down the drain.
- Have awareness about what is happening in the world.
- If you have a hobby, increase your knowledge around that subject because what will you do with a pretty face if you do not have anything to talk about when you go out!
- Feed your brain with good things.
- Keep your passion for learning alive.
Being elegant and feminine is not just about how you look. It is also about the way you act. Seeing the beauty of cultivating elegance in your life will not be easy. But, it will be worth it. Every day will be a challenge. You will be required to make changes in your old patterns and make better and more elegant choices. Do not let the opinions of other people discourage you. I will suggest that you keep your journey secret if people around you are not supportive. It might feel uncomfortable at first. But, do not give up. And success will be yours. So, get ready to cultivate the art of elegance and gracefulness and change your life.
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