Have you met people who are liked by everyone? No matter where they go, they are never alone. Everybody loves their company. This attracts you and compels you to have a conversation with them and get to know the secret behind their ability to make everyone feel like a million bucks. How do they do that? Let’s check out these 13 tricks to be charming.
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What is a charm?
Charm is a quality that creates an instant connection with others. When you are with a charming person, you feel like you have known them forever and are ‘special’ to them. The odd thing is that being charming has nothing to do with looks.
Ways to be charming
Become a good listener
- Whenever you have a conversation, listen attentively.
- Leave whatever you are doing at that moment and give all your attention to the person talking to you as if that’s the most important thing for you.
- Do not interrupt others when they are speaking.
- Pause before replying. Rather than being ready with the answer before the question finishes, take a 5-second pause and then answer. It will make others feel like you care for them as you give a thought before replying.
- Ask them questions.
- Show them that you are interested in the conversation.
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Eye contact
- Maintain proper eye contact during a conversation.
- Eye contact is a positive body language trait that makes people feel connected to you.
- It gives people the impression that you care.
The way you speak
During the conversation, notice the way you speak.
Do you-
- Speak too fast or too slow
- Speak with clarity
- Use inappropriate noises while speaking
- Use too many curse words
- Speak in a proper tone and pitch?
At times, people do not find our talks interesting because of how we speak. Often, we fail to realize this. Talking without clarity makes it difficult for people to grasp our words and connect with us.
So, bring changes in the way you speak. Use proper words, give pauses while speaking, and have clear pronunciation.
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Give approval
- We all want to be seen, heard and validated by others.
- When we accept and approve others fully just the way they are, it brings them closer to us.
- The best thing you can do to be charming is to welcome them in their entirety, without limitation.
- Do not criticize or find fault.
- Smiling at them can be one gesture you can do to show your acceptance.
- Learn to give specific and genuine compliments to people.
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Calm
- Have you seen people who are busy for no reason?
- They are always working like a bull and never take time to notice the beauty and the creation around them.
- When we cultivate peace and calmness from within, people feel more drawn towards us because we are attracted to those who already have what we want, and calmness in every situation is the one trait we all yearn for.
- I have found that doing meditation, breathing exercises, and deep stretches help me feel more grounded and calm throughout the day.
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Look your best
Although charm has nothing to do with looks, there are ways through which we can use our appearance to appear more charming.
- Keep yourself groomed all the time.
- Take time for your self-care routines.
- Accentuate your best features.
- Take care of your body, nails, hair and skin.
- Choose the clothes that suit your body type.
- Lastly, do not forget to wear your signature scent.
Confidence
- Nobody is born with confidence, but we can cultivate it over time.
- You must have seen that when people are confident, the way they walk, sit and speak is different from those who lack confidence.
- We, as humans, have a natural tendency to get attracted to those who are confident as they showcase the clarity in their actions and clarity has power.
- You will not become confident overnight but start by practising small things like sitting in an upright posture.
- Then, you can bring other changes.
Feminine personality
- Feminine personality is spell-binding. You can literally notice this.
- People like the mystery, beauty and playfulness feminine woman has.
- Being feminine makes you irresistible.
Manners
- Good manners come from the inside and do not change according to the situation.
- Manners are based on kindness and respect.
- There is a correct action, an incorrect action, and an appropriate action in every situation.
- Show mutual respect towards everyone; do not hesitate to use words like ‘sorry’, ‘please’, ‘thank you’.
- Send fresh flowers or cards to make someone’s day.
- When we have good manners, people feel that we are more considerate. And this makes others want to be around us.
Show the real you
- Rather than faking and giving people the impression that you are perfect, show them the real you.
- You can talk about the things you have dealt with and your own challenges to connect to others at a deeper level.
- People get charmed towards those who show their true self and vulnerable side to others.
Stay away from negativity
- I have not seen anyone being charmed by sad people.
- We all want to be happy and are automatically attracted to those who are more positive and happy.
- Stop being a victim, and do not put your energy into unnecessary drama.
- Have a light and friendly meeting with everyone and avoid gossip and looking down on others.
Taking unnecessary attention
- I have seen people trying so hard to be charming that they use all kinds of ways to get more attention.
- Dressing in revealing clothes, posting everything on social media and deliberately being loud might give you others’ attention, but you do not get this attention from the right people.
- Have high standards and do not overdo things.
- You do not have to be desperate.
- Subtle gestures are what will help you the best in becoming charming.
Body language
- Most people do not know that their certain gestures unknowingly give people the wrong idea.
- Some body language gestures make people feel unwelcome.
- Your gestures should showcase openness and warmth.
- Passing a genuine smile and not crossing your hands during the conversation give others a good impression.
These are the simple yet most effective techniques that will definitely give you the feminine charm you have always wanted.