Feeling lethargic and disconnected from ourselves at times is not surprising. However, there are some things we can do to get rid of the side character’s energy and be the hero of our movie. Let us look at the most practical ways to radiate the main character’s energy-
13 tips to radiate the main character’s energy
Do not look for others’ validation
Don’t we often give up the things we dearly love in fear of the not-so-positive reactions from others? We are so afraid of others’ judgements that we stop living our life to the fullest. Not living life as our authentic selves puts us out of the main character’s energy. How many times a day do we think about other people? Believe me, they don’t worry about you as much as you worry about them worrying about you. Uhh…baffling?😅 Anyway, believe me, this is a fact. The little time we have between birth and death- why waste it worrying about ‘their’ opinion? Why mask the real you by pretence to please others?
Develop confidence
We have terrible habits of judging ourselves and comparing ourselves with others which lower our confidence level. No matter how you think and feel about yourself, you are no less than anyone else. Know that you are unique- the hero of your movie. It will tremendously boost your confidence level.
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Do not neglect yourself
Being kind and giving is a great thing. But we often forget to fill our cups while filling others’. Stop neglecting yourself. Take time to do what makes you feel good. Take charge of your own mood and health. Implement that new business idea, have a spa day, and go for a solo date.
Spend at least 30 minutes everyday doing what you love to do- something that brings a smile to your face.
Find joy in little things
We have a habit of looking at all the negative things in our life. It takes our focus away from the blessings we have. Find happiness in mundane things that you regularly do. Be creative and try doing things differently. Enjoy your life. This day will never come again. Therefore, enjoy it to your fullest! Remember, every day has something worth celebrating.
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Design your life
To truly radiate the main character’s energy is to know that you are 100% responsible for your life. You are the director and producer of your life movie. Take time to re-evaluate yourself. Take time to write a clear script of your life. Set goals and take thoughtful actions towards them.
It is possible to change your thoughts and feelings by being conscious of them and changing them so that they can assist you in living a better life. Stop the blame game and come into your protagonist’s energy.
Use social media the right way
How many times do we feel horrible about ourselves seeing other people doing marvellous things on social media? Know that it is not the real world, and everyone is trying to portray a part of their life that might not even exist in reality.
If you feel unworthy after spending time on social media, know that you are following the wrong crowd. Follow the people who inspire you to take charge of your own life rather than those who make you feel like you are in the side character.
Surround yourself with the right people
Do some people in your life make you feel horrible and inferior about yourself? Environment plays a huge role in our lives. Stay away from these villains of the movie. Distance yourself from negative people and be in the company of optimistic and joyful people who lift you up.
Trust your intuition
If you want to radiate the main character’s energy, stop asking other people to decide for you. It is okay to ask for others’ opinions at times, but that does not mean that you should become absolutely dependent upon them. Remember, a parasite never has an identity of its own!
We all have inner knowing to guide us whether our decisions are right or wrong. Trust your intuition. Listen to everyone but know that the last say should always be yours.
Focus on your appearance
How does the main character of your favourite movie look? On point most of the time. Invest some time in your appearance. Do not leave your favourite dresses for a special occasion.
Ensure that you look your best. Dressing well makes us feel a lot better about ourselves. Moreover, being the main character of your life, you should not have a sloppy appearance, right?
Have fun
It is crucial to plan your life and take action according to your script. But, ensure that you enjoy the journey along the way. The path from where you are right now to where you want to be is not a straight line. There will be lots of ups and downs in between. The point is not to take things too seriously. Develop acceptance because everything in life might not go according to your script.
Stop waiting
Do not wait for others to help you make changes in your life. If you are waiting for the right time to feel motivated before doing anything in your life, chances are that you will keep waiting, and nothing will happen. You only have one shot in life- do not waste it. Even if you believe in reincarnations, there will never be another you. So ensure that you realise the value of the gift of life and live it to its fullest.
Create a playlist
It might sound odd, but music is a tool that will help you radiate the main character’s energy. Create a playlist of all those songs that inspire you. Music has the power to elevate our energy and make us feel better. You can listen to it while working out, cooking breakfast or driving to work to have a better morning.
Raise your vibes
Raising your vibration is necessary to become the main character of your movie. It makes you feel so much better about yourself and attracts better things towards you. You can use any of your favourite tools, like meditation, spending time in nature, yoga, affirmations, mantra chanting and breathing exercises.
There you go- the movie is set to be a blockbuster if you honestly realise this ultimate secret. What are you waiting for?
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