Some people always have their game on point. They are like human magnets, and everyone wants to be around them. Let’s be honest- we all want such power. From increasing our network connection to intimacy with our partner- having a magnetic personality has innumerable benefits. Here, we will look at 10 simple things we all can do today to become magnetic and irresistible.
Ways to be magnetic
Play a game
- According to you, who are the most magnetic people?
- What kind of thoughts do they have?
- How would they react if they were in your situation?
- What actions would they have performed?
Once you know the answer to these questions, start acting like your magnetic version. Affirm to yourself- I am magnetic; people love to be around me; I love receiving so much love from everyone; I am beautiful. Visualise how people would treat your magnetic version, and believe me, soon enough, it will become your reality.
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Improve your self worth
- To have a magnetic personality, you have to improve your self-worth.
- When you value yourself, you know that you are good enough, lovable and worthy.
- It comes when you know that you do not have to be someone else in order to be loved, and you are perfect just the way you are.
- We hear so many negative comments from our friends and family often. At least our thoughts about ourselves should be positive and kind.
- The best thing you can do to increase your self-worth is practising Louise Hay’s mirror technique- see yourself in the mirror, preferably without clothes.
- Look into your eyes as if you are meeting an old friend after a really long time.
- Notice everything about you without judgement.
- Show complete acceptance of all the things you think are your imperfections.
- Say to yourself- I am beautiful, and I love you even if you do not think it is true. With some practice, you will get used to it.
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Treat everyone like a celebrity
Now see, why do you want to be around someone? It is because they make you feel good. So how about you treat everyone as if they are the most important to you.
You can do that by-
- Asking different questions about their hobbies and passion.
- Listening to what they have to say very carefully.
- Bringing positivity and joy to your conversation.
- Taking pictures with them.
- Giving people genuine compliments.
- Having proper eye contact.
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Standing in your own power
- When you stand in your own truth, you are not afraid to talk about your beliefs and what is important to you.
- When you have set clear boundaries and convey your story freely and clearly without thinking about what other people will think, you become magnetic to others.
- Most people try to copy each other and fail to communicate properly because of the negative judgments they might get from others.
- Being authentic and standing in your own power sets magnetic people apart from those who are not.
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Confidence
Confident people are obviously attractive.
Some people might not be labelled as attractive by society, but something about them grabs everyone’s attention. Have you noticed the same? That is the power of confidence.
The best way to feel confident no matter where you go is by acting as if you own the place.
You will see a change in your walk, talk and posture by having this mindset.
Do not take things seriously
When we do not take things seriously and laugh and have fun all the time, it creates this playful aura around us.
Like most people, these days are stressed, and victims of their circumstances magnetise towards this playful energy because we have a tendency to get attracted towards what we want and do not have.
Chakra healing
Along with people, if you want to be magnetic towards your desires, you need to practise chakra healing.
Focus, especially on sacral chakra and heart chakra.
Our sacral chakra controls our creativity, sensitivity, sexuality, intimacy and self-expression and the heart chakra controls trust, fearlessness, peace, generosity, connectedness and self-love.
Healing these chakras and connecting to them will give you an ultimate magnetic personality.
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Connecting to your feminine energy
- What happens when you constantly try chasing a desire or person? The answer is that they both tend to run away.
- All we need is the proper balance.
- When we connect to our feminine side, irrespective of gender, we become receptive.
- When we connect to our body and feelings, we become aware of when to chase, when to rest and receive.
- As you increase your feminine energy and become more receptive, your desires and people around you will get pulled towards you. You will notice the same.
Connect to the space
It is crucial to connect not only with people but also with the space you are in.
I have found 2 ways to do that-
- Connect your breath to the ground beneath you. Involve all your senses. If you are eating, enjoy your food. Notice how it smells, tastes, and feels as you put it in your mouth, how your body feels after eating it. Just like food, involve your senses in everything that you are doing.
- This one is an ancient courtesan technique. People feel magnetised towards courtesans- you must have noticed the same in documentaries and movies. One of their main secrets is their ability to become one with space. Suppose when they see a rose, they will hold it in their hand, smell it, meditate on it as if they are the ones with it. You can do the same with fire, water, bird and crystals-anything. Doing this creates an energy shift that makes other people feel attracted to them.
Style
- Although magnetic personality is more about who you are and how you show up, style does have a role to play.
- You do not have to copy anyone to develop your own style.
- Try a different type of clothing, see what suits you.
- Accessorise to enhance your looks.
- Always dress according to your body type.
- Have a few pieces of lingerie in your wardrobe that make you feel sensual.
- Also, make sure that you have your signature scent.