Are you one of those women who rely more on the outer world than the inner world? Do you let other people decide things for you? These small yet crucial things will let you know your wounded feminine energy. The problem is that it doesn’t let you live your life authentically and happily.
Interested to know whether you have wounded feminine energy or divine feminine energy backing you? These 14 traits of the wounded feminine given below will answer you-
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Why does feminine energy get wounded?
We live in the masculine world where feminine energy is considered weak and insignificant. This is why we as women look down on our own powers and give them to others.
Giving away our power to the outside world is what creates the wounds.
Traits of wounded feminine energy
Too much focused on looks
It is crucial to pay attention to how you look. There is no problem with beautifying yourself, trying new clothes and doing makeup. The problem is that when your focus is entirely fixated on looks, it can make you feel empty over time.
You will constantly find yourself trying to reach for perfection that does not exist, only to end up being dissatisfied.
You will attract people who will come into your life and then leave after they are bored with you. As you are focussed on superficial things, this will manifest in your relationships, and you will not be able to find someone with whom you can have a deep connection. Understand that even though beauty has its own role to play, you, a goddess woman, are much more than that.
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Poor connection with other sisters
Are you one of those who like a guy’s company more than a girl’s? Do you find other girls bitchy, manipulative, clever and unfaithful? Believe it or not, this is a sign of wounded feminine energy. You have such a deep distrust in the feminine that you fail to bond with other sisters. You may have been betrayed in the past by women. But it is because of your distrust in feminine energy. When you start clearing your feminine wounds, women with high vibrations will get attracted into your life.
Self-sacrificing
As women, we are always taught to give to others instead of taking care of ourselves. The problem is that we start relying on other people so much that we develop self-trust issues. Think about it- nothing can be worse than not relying on our own shakti. Work on yourself. Trust your own decision making power. You can start doing this by first making trivial decisions and then major ones.
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Needy
Women are programmed to believe that they can not survive in this world alone without man support. They think that they are less than others and they have to have a man to make them realise their value.
It is far from the truth. Women are the womb owners- they are blessed with creative powers. They do not have to look for anything outside of them as whatever they seek is already within them, only if they fix their vision.
Overworking
You have wounded feminine energy if you overwork without giving yourself time to rest. There are ladies who want to be perfect at everything. They think that perfection is what will make them more valuable in this competitive world. Their habit of overworking depletes them physically, mentally, socially and spiritually. Balance has to be maintained in everything. You should take action when required. At the same time, you should know when to leave the results in the hands of the higher power and rest.
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Victim mentality
We all have reasons to feel bad about ourselves, but we do not have the right to. Women with wounded feminine energy will blame others or their past for their present condition. Moving on and having a new prospect in life is not for them. They will keep on reliving their past by repeating their sad stories.
Envious
One of the main traits of wounded feminine energy is envy. They have a habit of comparing their life with others. And so, their relationship suffers as they keep comparing their partner’s efforts with others. The problem is that their envious nature keeps them from enjoying the blessings in their life.
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Insecure
The wounded feminine has insecurity issues.
She lacks confidence in her own value, has trust issues, and fears the uncertainty of life. She is under constant stress that something might go wrong and always thinks that she has no standing in front of others.
Judgemental
Inner wounds make women more judgemental. They are insecure about themselves, which makes them overly critical of others. They criticise others rather than being respectful. One way to improve this behaviour is by self-reflecting and realising that everyone has shortcomings.
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Closed off
Divine feminine energy constitutes openness, creativity, love, beauty, sensuality and sexuality. When it is wounded, women feel closed off. They do not know who they are. Their root, sacral and heart chakra are usually imbalanced. As they are disconnected from their sensuality and creativity, they feel inauthentic.
Disconnected from feelings
The wounded feminine is emotionally imbalanced.
She is either too emotional or absolutely out of touch with her emotions.
The sad part is that she feels disconnected from her feelings and intuition. It is one of the main reasons why she can not decide whether something is good for her or not. The best way to connect to your feelings is by paying attention to how your body feels in different situations and around various people.
Shame
Shame is a painful emotion which makes us feel that we have done something wrong or improper. Every wounded feminine feels that.
She starts believing that it is her fault that people did her wrong.
She starts blaming herself, thinking that she deserves to be treated that way and is unworthy of love. It is one of the reasons why such women are always apologising.
People pleaser
Women with wounded feminine energy have a disease to please people. They will talk with others the way they like and agree with their opinions even when they think the opposite.
Their primary motive is to be liked by others. They can go to any extent to please others, even if they have to make fun of themselves.
Weak boundaries
Wounded women have weak boundaries. They let other people disrespect these boundaries. She has a habit of saying YES to every request, even when she wants to say NO.
You can start rebuilding your boundaries by first having a firm NO which can be done by saying NO to at least one request a day.
If you have these traits, you do not have to panic. All you need is self-love, kindness from yourself and deep spiritual healing.